humanual

The unwritten manual for dealing with people.

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humanual

The unwritten manual for dealing with people.

Exact words for calls, errands, coworkers, and messages. Practice conversations before they happen. Advice that fits how you communicate. You decide what to use.

Your coach is an AI, not a person, a therapist, or a crisis service. It remembers what you tell it so you don't have to repeat yourself, and you can see or delete what it remembers in Settings. Your conversations and profile are saved only in this browser.
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What your coach remembers Things you've told your coach in chats and your journal, so you don't have to repeat yourself. Both coaches see this list. Remove anything you'd rather it forgot.

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    In an emergency, call 911. Outside the US, call your local emergency number.

    Thinking about suicide, or in crisis

    988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: free, confidential, 24 hours a day.

    Someone is hurting or controlling you

    National Domestic Violence Hotline: 24/7, 200+ languages. Or chat at thehotline.org.

    Sexual assault

    RAINN National Sexual Assault Hotline: 24/7, free, confidential.

    Victim of a crime

    VictimConnect: your rights, options, and local help after any crime (weekdays). victimconnect.org

    Forced to work or trade sex

    National Human Trafficking Hotline: 24/7, confidential.

    For teens, including being bullied

    Crisis Text Line (741741): 24/7, any problem, including bullying. Teen Line (839863, or call 800-852-8336): trained teens who listen, evenings 6 to 9 PM Pacific for texts, 6 to 10 PM for calls. LGBTQ+ and under 25: The Trevor Project, 866-488-7386 or text START to 678678, 24/7. Bullied at school: StopBullying.gov has steps, and a teacher, counselor, or principal can act on it.

    If someone checks your phone: calls and texts show up in your history. A hotline's web chat in a private window, or a phone they can't see, may be safer.

    Humanual's coach is an AI. It can't help in an emergency, and a person can.

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